Do cuckolding and submission go together? I suppose based on most of the erotica sites I’ve explored. Well, yes, I’ve got a thing for women’s legs and high heels. Who wouldn’t? And the sight of a pair of soft feet in sharp high heels would reduce most men to silent fantasizers. It is true that admiring feminine legs, heels and feet is often associated with devotion, which is so close to submission. Fair enough, but that does that make one somehow less of a man?
I am not into denial, I am certainly not into celibacy for my lover.
My wife doesn’t want to me to roll over for her and am I am happy not to have to.
Sure, cuckolding is linked with worship. And that is really close to submission isn’t it? So what’s the problem?
Perhaps I am just uncomfortable with the idea of cuckolding being so often confused with feminization, with punishment, or making one less “manly” when really it isn’t any of those.
Done properly, it can be one of the most exciting things between two lovers. Just ask a happy hotwife.
Do I love having my lover climb on top of me and tell me what to do? Sure… but so does she.
Cuckolding has very bad PR I’m afraid. There isn’t a celebrity out there who fully embraces it, is there? I’m not sure Tiger Woods counts. It is not as if he really was happy about being “outed”.
But it is one of the most popular fantasies for men. And for the women who free themselves from the stereotypes associated with “slut shaming” it can be extremely sexually satisfying.
Here’s to not associating it with some kind of lesser masculinity. Let’s all agree just to make love not war for a while. Being married to a hotwife, doesn’t make one any less of a man, in fact, quite the opposite.
- Cuckolding? (ashleymadisonwife.wordpress.com)